I'm not familiar with the 3rror DNS config tools, but what you need to do is actually configure the DNS server itself to point to the proper IP. I know that Godaddy.com and GWDHosting.com's domain servers offer exactly that level of service.
You'll want to look for something about "Full DNS Management" or something like that, then find something called "A Records."
Here's what I got from the host:
[19:54] imsickatsk8ing: Ok, there's something I need to do to the domain, but I can't figire it out.. still.
[19:54] imsickatsk8ing: I can't find where the "A Records" are...
[19:54] ErrorHst: There aren't any, you need to do that at your other host.