If it's loading slowly because it's trying to connect to your server, it's actually being delayed in javascript, which means it's a local thing, rather than our servers.
This means it's hanging while your computer is trying to connect to the vent server to load.
The easy solution is to use our embedded ventrilo option, and disable your custom one (the one provided by your ventrilo host).
You can do this by heading to [b]Admin > Menus > Ventrilo/Teamspeak Server Status[/b Our script is designed to not get held up if your server is slow to respond, or some other error. Instead, our system caches the results with the servers and displays the cache.