We use the EPGP system as well and just do a one time adjustment (-250) for the person who gets approved for a raid and doesn't show. The adjustment has an info box that you can put in which raid it was, date, and what they did (didn't show, retracted signup after approval, etc.)
Not sure if that is what you are looking for but that is how we get by.
That's what I'd like to do, but when I do a -250 adjustment from the "Adjustments" link in Admin it adds 250 GP to the person instead of subtracting 250 EP.